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Oral Sex FAQ & Tips
"Going down 101 (For Men & Women)
© 2003 Mark Simon

Q: What is oral sex?

A: Oral sex or oral copulation is the act of pleasuring and stimulating your partners body and genitals with your lips, tongue and mouth. This consist of kissing, licking and sucking on many parts of your partners body but is mainly focused on their genitals.

Q: Why do people like oral sex?

A: oral sex is many peoples favorite sex act. I get so many e-mail at my sites asking me question such as "How can I please my girlfriend orally", "What is the best way to eat my girl friend out?", "Tell me how I can get better at going down on my boyfriend?"

I truly believe that to be a Great Lover you must be highly skilled in the art of oral lovemaking. Both men and women love it when their partner pleases them orally and for many it is a very intimate experience that they don't share with just anyone. But in order to be a truly great lover you should not just think in terms of "going down on her or him" and just licking her pussy or his cock, but instead think of using your mouth on every inch of his or her body! From face to feet. And for a man who is a bit undersized down below or is working to overcome a problem with premature ejaculation, it is even more important that he learn how to please his lover with his mouth and hands as well.

Great oral pleasure starts with having great kissing technique. You must know how to kiss and turn your partner on. Then move to other parts of their body, i.e. neck, nipples, midsection, back , legs and finally moving to her Vulva (vaginal lips) or his penis and scrotum (balls.) You must be skilled at caressing and stimulating all of these areas with your mouth and tongue.

Many men rush into oral sex and ruin the state of arousal and diminish the level of pleasure that they could give their partner with proper technique. This is such a shame, because you are robbing both you and her from a truly incredible experience.

Always remember the key to pleasing a woman is to tease her first and build her arousal. You should always have this in the back of your mind!

Some tips for oral sex (for men):

• Always take your time! Twice as slow will feel twice as good (at least in the beginning )
   
• Ask your partner what she likes, and have her guide you.
   
• When she shows that she really likes what you are doing, that does not mean to go faster, that means keep doing what you are doing exactly the way you are doing it Unless she tells you other wise!
   
• Start with very light strokes, then increase pressure as she becomes more and more aroused.
• Start around the outside of her vulva and then move to the lips and then finally to the clitoral area.

If you just follow the information above you will improve your technique 100%.

Some tips for oral sex (for women):

• Always take your time! Twice as slow will feel twice as good (at least in the beginning ) But then faster will feel better for most men.
   
• Ask your partner what he likes, and have him guide you.
   
• When he shows that she really likes what you are doing, that does not mean to go faster, that means keep doing what you are doing exactly the way you are doing it Unless he tells you other wise!
   
• Start with very light strokes, then increase pressure as she becomes more and more aroused.
   
• You your hands as well to stroke the shaft of his penis at the same time you are sucking on the head of the penis.
   
• Don't forget to lick and caress and suck on his balls as well as his penis.
   
• Many men get turned on when women  can take the man's penis deeply into her mouth and throat. This is called deep throating. You must learn how to relax your gag reflex in order to do this. The best way to learn this is to practice on a penis shaped dildo so you can control the motion and and learn with out the fear of gagging on your partner. To see a selection of realistic dildos and other sex toys click here!

If you just follow the information above you will improve your technique 100%.

About the author: Mark Simon is the author of the hot selling "Penis of Steel Manual" a guide for men on penis enlargement, ejaculatory control, sexual technique and supercharged sex. And "The Female Ejaculation Manual" A guide to G-Spot stimulation and female ejaculation for women and the men who love them!" You can reach Mark at mark@greatlovers.com

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